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Do children with autism understand death? Do they mourn? Do they understand when people are sad?

I’m not sure if my daughter (who has autism) understands.  Maybe she does and just doesn’t know how to show her emotions.  With that being said, I decided to write a poem to her about the passing of her grandpa.

Jackie,

My grandpa died today.  He was great grandpa to you.  Do you remember grandpa?  I’m not sure that you do.

He’s gone to heaven, a place beyond the clouds far away.

Do you remember heaven?  It’s where angels stay.

Do you remember angels?  We talk to them when we pray.

Your grandpa told great stories when we gathered around.

He always joked and laughed, he was such a clown.

Grandpa worked hard to provide a warm, happy home.

He fought for our country over seas all alone.

Grandpa pickled everything from beets to beans.

He made the best rubarb jelly and hated the color green.

Grandpa visited you this summer and was amazed to see you swim.

He didn’t realize what a mermaid you were with no fear to jump in.

Grandpa loved grandma, his bride so true.

Grandma loved him and cared for him through and through.

Grandpa always stood strong on how important family was.

I guess that’s why I’m here and your here because of his love.

Love,

Mom

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